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In January an unexpected email found my Inbox. Jen Gatien, Producer of a film in pre-production at Scarritt Bennett Center in Nashville, contacted me to discuss being a consultant on a movie about a young girl entering a convent.

I asked, “How did you find me in Florida?”

Her response, “I googled ‘Former nun Nashville.'”

My name was the only one to come up. After seeing my website and my book, Monastery to Matrimony, she contacted me to see if I would be the ‘nun consultant on set.  I was hired and within 24 hours they flew me to Nashville and I began work immediately. Though I was still recuperating from the accident, I couldn’t resist the opportunity for such a rare experience. I was on set long hours everyday advising from my own directors chair.

My marketing efforts brought me this gig. I had written a newspaper column when I lived in Spring Hill, wrote press releases announcing my book signings in the area, posted on my website, and publicized my book extensively on my Facebook Page and Amazon Central.

The film, Novitiate, is in post-production searching for a film festival. It may or may not see the dark of a movie theatre, but it was a great experience to add to my profile. I met wonderful people and learned the behind the scenes work of filming a movie. I now appreciate the long list of names in movie credits. The actors had impressive credits to their names. I am still in touch with the ‘Mother Superior’ actress Melissa Leo who has earned Oscar and Emmy nominations. Currently she is nominated for an Emmy for her part as Lady Bird Johnson in All the Way, a recent HBO movie. Watch for her in a new TV show to air in the fall on Showtime.

Marketing! Marketing! Marketing! You never know where marketing might take you.  JUST DO IT!



I’m Back!

It’s time to revive my dormant blog. It has been just over a year since I last posted. In my February, 2015 post, I was expounding on how great 2014 had been for me. My book, Monastery to Matrimony was published. I launched it with an “Out-of-the-Box” champagne party in my home. A successful book tour through Illinois and Tennessee followed. Life was exciting. I was rolling along as a new author.

In mid 2015, my day-to-day life came to an abrupt halt. All book business stopped. Writing on my next book was side-tracked. On a perfectly beautiful sunny Florida day, I was taking my regular early morning walk in the neighborhood and SLAM, everything changed. I was hit by a car.

Life changed. My new vocabulary included ER, hospital, doctors, x-rays, rehab, MRI, CT scan, physical therapy, and various electronic tests.

It’s been a year now and I am finally able to give my writing life some attention once again. An abundance of writing material was collected over the year, but I prefer to look forward, not back.

I can’t say I am back to normal by any means, but I am eternally grateful to God for the mobility I have. So perhaps you can look for a new post now and then.

Watch for it!



How did 2015 slip in when I wasn’t looking. My plan was to wrap up 2014 and write a BLOG on my plans for the New Year. So now it’s February and I am reflecting on writing  and sharing tips on marketing.


I couldn’t be happier with 2014. Mid-year my first book, a memoir, MONASTERY TO MATRIMONY, A WOMAN’S JOURNEY, was published by Balboa Press. After months and years working on it, it didn’t disappoint. It received a second place award at the October Florida Writers Association Conference in Lake Mary, FL.


And now, I find it is true. MARKETING IS THE HARDEST PART. Good thing I like marketing. It has been rewarding and fun to seek opportunities to talk about my book.


  • Don’t limit your marketing to book signings. Talk about your book. Hearing the author speak about the book draws more of a crowd than just signing.
  • Speak at libraries (though you may not be able to sell the book, it spreads the word and they will buy somewhere)
  • Be creative in launching your book. I did an “Opening the Box Party” inviting neighbors and friends to help me celebrate receiving the first box of books. A champagne toast helped. Your friends are as excited as you are. They brought flowers and wine. CELEBRATE!
  • Do a press release of special events such as the Opening the Box party. Get acquainted with a staff writer, create a relationship so they remember your name.
  • Speak at book clubs and organizations. Groups are always looking for monthly speakers.
  • Bill yourself as an author and a speaker.
  • Join writing groups that focus on promoting authors.
  • Join State writing organizations.
  • Go to conferences.
  • The more you get your name out, the better your sales at bookstore signings




Nearly every day I receive a picture, an email, or message about someone who is reading my memoir, Monastery to Matrimony.

Joan Buckles, a Board Member of COPE, Children of Pokot Education, sent a picture holding my book at the ICOM, International Conference on Missions in Columbus, OH. She was reading the book while working the COPE booth last weekend.  COPE was founded and is directed by Barb O’Donohue. Under her direction, COPE educates and feeds over 650 children.  Food is scarce. Books are shared. Donations are always welcome.

Ginger Manley sent a picture from England where she was reading Monastery to Matrimony.  Mike, from Impact Publishing in Wisconsin wrote that he enjoyed the book, commenting he learned more about nuns from my memoir than he ever learned from his 90-year old aunt who was a nun ’til she died. The book reveals what it was like behind convent walls in the 50s and 60s. Robin Spychalski sent a Florida beach picture where she enjoyed the read in August.  That book gets around.

Where are you as you read Monastery to Matrimony? Send pictures from far and near as you read about my journey.

Joan Buckles

Joan Buckles



What a novel idea! If you can’t write a whole novel, why not be part of writing a group novel. What’s a group novel? It is a novel written by several people.

One of the writing groups where I live – in The Villages, FL – have joined together several writers  to complete a novel where each individual contributes a chapter to the book.

Allen Watkins wrote the first chapter of a romance novel, but he never wrote the conclusion. No need, since there are 70 other authors from the area writing the rest of the book.

Watkins said, “It was interesting, because you’re writing in the blind. You don’t know what the person before or after you wrote. One person maps out the plot, writes character descriptions, and gives each author direction as to what their chapter is to do for the novel. Then he leaves the rest to them.

Chapters are read and feedback is given at the weekly meeting. Katie Lewis, a reporter for The Villages paper was excited to be invited to  join the group for her first novel-writing experience.

I see this as a perfect project for LWC, my previous writing group in Spring Hill, TN, an energetic creative group of serious writers. LWC could be the nucleus of writers while offering an invitation to other authors in the area. Of course, final editing would probably fall to Karen Aldridge, a professional editor and director of LWC.

What an interesting way to introduce writing prompts. It is a continuing exercise in following a plot and developing characters.

Let me know if you try this idea.





WRITE A BOOK IN A MONTH? Not in my lifetime. However, after reading the November/December issue of “Writer’s Digest,” I decided it was time I give this NaNoWriMo write-a-thon a try.

National Novel Writing Month is a challenge to writers to write 50,000 words of a novel in one month. Are you serious? That’s nearly 1700 words a day. Considering it took me about eight years to write my just published memoir, Monastery to Matrimony, (and that was my own life, something I knew well) how can I expect to write fiction for 30 days.

Well, of course, it is not meant to be a finished and edited manuscript. If I can get a very rough draft framed, I will be happy. I don’t do fiction easily.

This story has been tripping around my brain for a few years, but I have nary a key stroke to show for it. The story will be historical fiction, sort of a pre-prequel to my memoir. The setting is the same, St. Mary’s Convent in Nauvoo, Illinois. The time frame is 1872 to 1942, the lifespan of Sister Aloysia Beecher, an extroadinary woman whose family is said to have been closely related to Ward and Harriet Beecher Stowe.

The completed story will necessitate hours of period research, which I love to do. Obviously, the NaNoWriMo writing will not allow time for research. The bones of the book will come from an archived short story of the life of Sister Aloysia written by Mother Ricarda Gallivan in the mid 1970s.

Merely, writing this blog is a commitment to tackle thirty days of writing a skeleton story. I better get busy. The sun is setting on the second day of the month and the only thing I have written is a 286 word blog.

Feel free to respond and check on my progress.



FWA 2014 Conference


Talk about motivation! The 2014 Florida Writers Conference offered four days of workshops addressing the needs of over 400 writers from all over Florida and beyond who gathered at the Marriot Conference Center in Lake Mary, FL in October, 2014. A conference of this size involves months of planning and hundreds of volunteers.

Agenda Topics: Publishing a Book, Punctuation, Creativity, Editing, Outlining, Financials, Marketing, Contracts, Poetry, LGBT Character, and more.

Many took advantage of scheduling an appointment with one of the attending agents seeking new authors. Volunteers staffed the book store making members’ published books available for sale.


The culminating suspenseful event of the Conference began with a social hour and ended with cheers and jubilation when the results of the Royal Palm Literary Awards competition were announced on Saturday night after a chef’s special meal at a banquet for the hopeful Finalists.

Joy of Joys, I hear my name announced as the winner of a 2nd Place Award in my category of autobiography/memoir. I received a beautiful engraved acrylic plaque for my memoir, Monastery to Matrimony, A Woman’s Journey.

It took years of trial and error to pull this manuscript into an award winning book. Walking up on the stage and receiving the award from Chris Coward, director of my writing group and President of FWA made it all worthwhile.


The taste of success motivates me to sit at my computer and pull out the idea for an historical novel burning in my brain. Tune in to my BLOG next week to see if I have started it.

In the meantime, click on the link to hear an interview on Journey For Truth Radio Show with Tami Urbanek.






I am experiencing many great marketing events lately.

This week a film crew came to my home to shoot a video promoting my book Monastery to Matrimony, A Woman’s Journey. First I was interviewed on camera by Monica who focused on general questions about writing: Is it my passion? What did you hope to accomplish? Why did I choose to self-publish? What advice do you have for those considering publishing? After the interview,  Josh, the videographer, filmed me in different settings where I wrote in my home.

They wanted my cat, Sammie in the picture, so I roused her from her sleep on the lanai, brought her in to sit on my lap while I attempted typing on my laptop. Her favorite annoyance when I wrote on my desktop computer was to jump up on the desk and lay across the keyboard. Cats love to be in the center of activity.

Sammie is sometimes exasperating, but I tolerate the old girl’s need for attention because she is TWENTY-ONE years old this month. She came to my rescue after I lost my husband; I needed her company and someone to care for. I rescued her when she had to leave her home after seventeen years with the same family. I figured who else would want such an old cat. We are two seniors enjoying each others company.

Today I will be interviewed on another online radio show. Tami Urbanek, author of Loving Conner, expressed interest in having me on her  show, Journey For Truth.

 Marketing is an essential part of publishing a book. Writing is gratifying and challenging, but marketing is a necessity. There is no satisfaction in having boxes of books collecting dust in the garage. I actually enjoy promoting my book. I find talking to people at book signings, interviews, and speaking opportunities rewarding. In speaking, I not only talk about writing the book, I also share “The Steps to Moving Forward in Life.”

Watch for my video on my website. Listen to my online radio interview on Tami’s show which will air October 27.





What’s A Nun?

Catholic education has changed in the past fifty years. The scarcity of nuns probably has something to do with it. The content and teachings in Catholic schools is the same, but the face of it is different. No longer are guests greeted with a nun in full habit or even a modified habit. Nuns are no longer on the scene at all in most Catholic schools.

Recently a teacher friend of mine in a Catholic school talked to her class about my book, Monastery to Matrimony, A Woman’s Journey, telling them that I had been a nun. Their response was, “What’s a nun?”  We were both surprised. After a brief reflection, we realized that of course they would not know.  They had never seen one.

The number of nuns who left their religious communities in the 60s and 70s, including me, resulted in the closure of numerous Catholic schools, especially elementary schools. Some remained open when the laity stepped up to  fill the void. They do it with great sacrifice monetarily. They teach for the love of teaching and the love of their faith. People of parishes make sacrifices to support the schools to fill the financial gap left when the cheap labor of the nuns was no longer available.

A religious life as a nun is still a viable vocation. Many women are joining religious communities in their late 20s, 30s, and even 40s. Many are answering a call that they resisted their early years. They come from teaching, the corporate world, legal profession, and other diverse occupations. However, the numbers are not adequate to fill personnel needs in schools, nor does the diversity of their talents fit an education model.

From my perspective of the twenty years I spent in the Benedictine community of St. Mary Monastery,, I can truly say it is a good life, a life of service and one to be considered for women seeking a prayer life and complete dedication in God’s service.

The harsh customs depicted in my book are no longer practiced in todays communities. For example, today sisters would be allowed to spend time with family as needed at the death of a family member.

Catholic education will continue and it will grow thanks to the dedicated laity. The number of Catholic nuns will grow, but they  will be participating in various works while standing up for the poor, the neglected, the sick, and those suffering injustice.



Writing a book is a major accomplishment. Getting it published takes a double major effort. Then marketing it once published is a forever project. How many times do you hear of people who self-publish a book, order hundreds of copies, and leave them stacked in their garage or closet never to see the light of day.

I was determined not to do that. I felt if it was worth writing, I had to believe it was worth reading. I knew I could not work hard enough, nor would I live long enough, to give it the exposure it needed, so I solicited the help of public relations personnel. As a result, the book is being recognized far and wide. I am trusting that the recognition will result in sales.

Yesterday, I had the fun experience of being interviewed on the Christian Television Network. I appeared on the show Homekeepers with Arthelene Rippy. She devoted a full eighteen minutes to enthusiastic promotion of my book, Monastery to Matrimony. Her questions were focused and tantalizing to viewers. Her genuine interest and curiosity about my convent life will no doubt prompt people to search for my book. She made it known that it is available through Balboa, my publisher,, e-books, or directly from me at  The studio taping was in Largo, FL and will air during the week of October 6, 2014.  The program can be seen on the Christian Television Network out of Tampa, FL. It will be readily available to audiences with sattelite reception on the CTN channel. It will also be on my website.  See the SCHEDULE page on my website for other marketing activities.

The more books that are sold, the more I can contribute to the COPE Fund. The ministry for educating children in Pokot, Kenya, Africa—Children of Pokot Education—receives a portion of the proceeds from sales of Monastery to Matrimony.